The Last Day Of October

I just found out I only have about 2 months left this year. I anticipated that this month would be very hard and stressful, but I realized it was nothing but a little challenging in the end. I had two big events which I needed to deal with. Fortunately, every conflict was settled and every problem solved because I tried to be attentive/careful in solving the problems, and I thought about how to mediate discrepancies in opinions (or simply: differences in opinion). Most importantly, there is one thing that I realized during this month.
The first thing is (that) I have a lot of people to help me out anytime and anywhere. In the process of coping with those two events (As I was coping with these two events), I found I have much more people who are with me than I expected. At first, I tried to deal with everything by myself (on my own) because/since ("for" sounds a bit old-fashioned) I didn't want to bother other people - anyway, those events are (on my hands? maybe are mine to deal with). However, it was not only impossible but also not clever to make decisions by myself because the events required me to cooperate with other people. People around me didn't slink off but stayed with me when I needed them. They gave me a lot of <em>(advice /information is uncountable)</em> useful advice and information so that I was able to clear up/solve everything.
Although many people want to be free from some difficult and irritating/annoying relationships, we can't be eventually alone because most of the situations that we live in require us to band with other people. Even if some problems remain ours alone, very little and humble advice and tips (offered/given) by other people can (show us some adventitious ways?) (maybe can provide us with unexpected opportunities), or they can support me emotionally when I feel my problems become unbearable. This is my most important lesson during October, which redeems all of the hardships so far.

Great! Sometimes, I believe the simpler words are the better ones - but then it's hard to know which words are supposed to be simple and which ones complicated :)