REPORTED SPEECH:
We often backshift present to past so, "It MAY rain," would usually be reported as, "She said it MIGHT rain."
However, it would not be wrong to say, "She said that it may rain." Especially if the reporting were nearly contemporaneous.
TO SHOW ANNOYANCE/FRUSTRATION:
"Well, you MIGHT have told me you were not coming! Huh! I cooked dinner. What a waste of food!"
"People MIGHT try to be more considerate! Tut!"
You need to sound really quite annoyed for this to work well! (MAY does NOT work in this situation)
To be VERY POLITE:
Try MIGHT! "Might I borrow your pen?" (Rather formal, very polite, a bit old-fashioned perhaps)
MAY is also polite. "May I use your phone?"
CAN works here, and is probably the most common form, but some people find it rude, and some consider it incorrect usage. "Can I borrow your book?"
"Can I climb this mountain?" has 2 meanings. Do I have the ability? Or... do I have permission?
If we keep MAY for permission, and CAN for ability we have regained clarity! Ah! But too late! Everybody now uses CAN for permission so we have confusion!
Let's go back to: "May I climb this mountain or is it off-limits?" (permission)
"Can I climb this mountain? Yes! I can. And I will! I'm fit and well-trained, so I can!!!!" (ability)
HOPES/WISHES/wishing someone good luck
You need the word MAY for this.
"May you be very happy in your new job!" "May the force be with you!"(Star Wars!)
MIGHT does NOT work here.
MAY you have a happy time studying MIGHT and MAY!
(Oh and don't forget MIGHT also has the meaning of power and strength, and MAY is also a month, and a type of tree... so there MIGHT/MAY be plenty of opportunities where you MIGHT/MAY get confused!)