In the first example you would normally use the present continuous if he is doing it now, and the present simple for something he does regularly.
In the second example, using the verb ‘want’, we do not normally use the present continuous, even though the ‘action’ is current. Many ‘stative’ verbs in English follow this pattern, and to a British ear, or at least an old one like mine ‘I’m loving it’ [an advert slogan of a well-known fast food enterprise] sounds strange. Love, like, want, dislike, hate, etc. routinely use the present simple in all situations.