I have never dared tell my father, but I desperately want to tell him that he should only marry a woman whom he adores if he has an opportunity to make life all over again. Why do I say this? Because he will love his daughter if he loves his wife, and he will not cheat on his wife and hurt his family. Also, he will not treat his daughter with indifference which results in her being insecure. A kid will become mentally strong only if she or he lives in a family that is full of love, and it is essential that the parents love each other. On the other hand, children cannot learn healthy relationships between people in a family where love is lacking. They will not have enough confidence to communicate with others and maybe will not learn to express themselves properly. They will always feel a lack of love which could make them prone to becoming a person who likes to accommodate others in order to win their friendship. However, it is so tiring when he or she always wants to please others. So if I had the chance to go back to the past, I would find my 18-year-old mum and tell her she should not marry my father and instead choose a man who loves her from the bottom of his heart.