The "Great" Indian Men Mentality You come to India and ask anyone what is their perception about west I am sure many will tell you “Oh! West they have no ethics when it comes to sex and sexuality, they just do it with anyone Characterless women and men.” But I say agreed the actions of many in west can be called filthy but the Indian mentality is filthier. Indians look far towards America and others and say “Disgusting! shame on them” I also look at them around here and say “Disgusting! Shame on us” I don’t say that the western ways are good but I do say that if west on the bad path we are heading towards nothing good either. In the west if they are interested to have a short term physical relation with a lady they might be open about it and talk to her that this is what I want if you agree. Be it a yes or no from the lady but still they don’t talk behind the girl’s back they say it face to face. Instead of being face to face whereas here (especially Punjab where I live) on the face they will say “See I am not that type I want friendship.” And as soon as she turns her back “Oh! Wish I could get her **** and did you see her boobs…what an ass…so on! ” So aren’t we worse because a guy in west may be lustful about one woman at one time but here I see many looking with lust at every woman that passes in front of them And just today’s example we went out with our classmates and in one car were boys (7) and the other were girls and at least 4 guys kept saying vulgar and inappropriate things that I can’t even mention. So when we don’t even spare our own female friends and classmates with whom we have to spent next two years in the same class so you can very well imagine how such guys would talk about a lady they don’t even know. As I see it The guys in India (specially North India) want female company but they are not ready to give them the respect they deserve infact using swear words while talking about girls is considered something macho and cool among Punjabi youth. I wonder do they refer their mom’s and sisters like that too saying My ***** mom packed lunch for me or my ******* sister goes to school. I guess not but if you are careful not to abuse the women of your house then why not to treat the women of someone else’s house with respect too. And yet we say…West! Disgusting people ! because we are more interested and concerned about the filth they are privately doing in their bedrooms than the filth we are publically spreading with our words and actions.