A wife can refer to her husband as "Daddy" once in a while, if he is a Daddy to someone. If he has a child, he became a Daddy when the child was born. Especially if the child is present, or in the room, the child would call him Daddy, and the wife can do that. Just like if the husband and wife are grandparents, she might call him "Grandpa" once in a while, but this would not occur very often. It could be an affectionate "nick-name".