I would choose divorce as well because pretending to be a happy family and "everything is OK" doesn't work.

I think I will choose divorce.

Every divorce is a tragedy, and every situation is different. In the United States, "staying together for the sake of the children" is less common than it used to be. I do NOT think it is ALWAYS better for the children. Children know when things are not right between the parents. It is not good for children to watch their parents "living a lie." An amicable divorce and shared custody can be better.

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most people stay together untill their childs grown up,I think.