Hi:) The expression that you want explained is an American expression that is used as sarcasm:) Sarcasm is saying remarks that are intended to mean the opposite but is used to mock someone:) For example if you are sitting down eating cereal and someone comes to you and asks you "Are you eating cereal?" and you reply "No I'm eating chicken",you would be using sarcasm:) Since the woman said "Wow, why don't you rub that in my face, why don't ya" she meant that as sarcasm and the fact whatever the man said, he was bragging and she didn't approve of it:)