"In the wings" means "ready to do something or to be used at the appropriate time".
It is more about "use" than about "liking".
If you ask a girl, "Who else have you got waiting in the wings?", it is a cynical remark about "who else you can use".
If we want to be more gentle and less cynical, we should say, "Who else is in hot pursuit?" This would be about love and not use or cynical exploitation.
In politics, when we are trying to form a cabinet, or fill poltical positions, we often ask, "Who have we got waiting in the wings?"
The original literal meaning of "the wings" is "the sides of a theatre stage out of view of the audience".
So when you use the phrase, think of a director trying to deploy eager or ambitious actors waiting to play some part.