Dear friend ,world is not emptied of trustworthy people.But people like you are rare.one who gets such people are lucky.It may be sometimes impossible to find someone.so you should change according to them.Not mean that you should become like them.Anyone can be that person,whom you looking for.But the fact is that that person should sacrifice his own feelings ,emotions and comfort for sake of others.The person know to compromise .You shouldn't waste ur emotions who has no concern for you.some people are just straight up .many forgets his humanity.what happens around comes around.narrow minded people think abt themselves.You need to expand yourself in spirit. It is the spiritual consciousness which will transcend the body and mind and reach out to the lives outside us. do meditation and cultivate the attitude of non-attachment. Be detached from yourself. Learn to view yourself as an objection of perception different from the perceive.We dont know what is in others mind.Dont open all the doors to others.At some point their must be some limitations.Make them respect your feelings and emotions.Our mindset is so important.Why we give them the place from where they can hurt us?Use your brain.heart understands emotions,sentiments,love etc.brain can analyse them and can give a logic.there may lot of bad things will happen,but we should move on.Flow with the life ,there is always hope.without hope none can live.There will be always someone to hurt you.with out pain,whats pleasure of happiness ?You are very much true to life.Your insight is clear.People like you may find it to live disheartened .think someday you will get a person true at heart.None like to die disheartened.i think you will not.

Hi Nawab, maybe you are too trusting of people. However if it is your own family or relations, then it may be time to look at your behaviour & ask yourself whether that has caused people to reject you. Otherwise, I would visit a counsellor for professional advice about relationships.

If everyone thinks that relationships are build based on giving love ,not for taking then trust and sincerity comes,then none will dishearten anyone.Trust is like taking a chance.Sometimes we may be lucky,sometimes not.For a true relation ,we should dedicate one another.You trusted other people unconditionally.Its almost impossible for a wise person to do so.Its also possible to trust conditionally with your eyes open.You kept complete confidence in other that he willnot cheat you.Relationships are sometimes built on compromises and faith. I think those who brokes the heart of people loving them are treacherors or cheaters.You had faith,trust and love in others.if you are unhappy in a relation ,you should avoid him.When relations being boring ,feeling jelous one feel very less loving to other.Different people trust different one in different level.You are using heart.When it collapses by cheating ,it really hurts.the most common reason i believe is lack of communication in relationship or a change or perception and desires or just an utmost stupidity and selfishness.love hurts and life is not easy its not ment to be.we may feel hurted today,but a wise thinking man moves on.he never cares much abt pain.people act according to the situations.You may not have realized that.May you depend others more than should.I think you dedicated to others in time ,but they used it and never loved you.To trust anyone is not a sin or crime.But you should see ,if they are worth trusting.If you misjudje a person for that,it will be a crime to yourself and you will be the victim.People may use you for their own sake.they may have exploited you.You may have trusted them with your eyes closed.They may never value your love or feelings.

Hello Nawab, well it's hard to trust people now a days...I'ts definitely not a sin to trust people close to you...I think you might be too trustworthy..or giving your trust out to the wrong people that are not corresponding to it the way it should...or sometimes when people are too trustworthy, they misinterpret friendship with love,,,for the reason that they are to sensitive in there sentiments....but u seem like a real nice and sweet guy....be careful who u trust so u don't feel betrayed....