After the big bang, the universe expanded. The size of the universe increased.
If you inflate a balloon, it expands. The volume of air inside it increases, as does it's size.
The number of languages in the world is increasing.
Expand is more when a thing becomes larger, or more vast. Increase is when the number or things or the quantity becomes larger.
As houses get bigger, their cost increases.
As you become smarter, your knowledge base expands.
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