I have not heard "strung up"" used in this manner. I have only heard it to mean a hanging (or lynching). I have heard "strung out" which means to be under the influence of drugs, and "wound up" which means to be nervous or excited. It's possible that "strung up" is used elsewhere or that it has become obsolete to avoid confusion.
"wound up" would work in sentences #1 and #2 but would not work in #3 or #4 as written
3. Stop getting (all) wound up, everything will be alright
3. Don't get (all) wound up, everything will be alright.
4. You don't have to get (all) wound up, you'll do it.
4. Don't get (all) wound up, you'll do it.