I'm confused about deponent verbs
Coming from English, I'm having a very difficult time understanding and grasping these types of verbs. From what I understand, deponent verbs end in "-s" but are not passive. Unfortunately, that doesn't tell me much.
Duolingo provides three instances where the verb is deponent:
1) The subject causes an experience for something/someone else (e.g. "rummet känns kallt").
2) The meaning can be reciprocal (e.g. "vi träffas")
3) The verb's action affects the subject (e.g. "jag trivs")
Despite this breakdown, I still feel lost. Is there a specific list of verbs that are always deponent? Are there any verbs that can be both deponent and standard/regular? In what way can I identify a situation when I'd know I'd need to use a deponent verb?
Could I ask someone to explain this concept to me in a way that might help clarify some of the confusion? Tack så mycket!