Context would help - but I think this is two idioms together:
#1: There is an English idiom "everything but the kitchen sink." You use it when you want to say a great many items.
Example: "In her suitcases, she packed everything but the kitchen sink." means: she brought a lot of luggage and bags with her.
#2: "throw in" means to add to something.
Examples: "I'd like to buy a notebook. And throw in a couple of pens, too."
or "When you make this soup, you can throw in some tomatoes for extra flavor."
So without context, I would guess that "throw the kitchen sink in" would mean that the person is asking for *everything*.