That's easy. When people observe you, they assume that you are attractive due to seeing a girl looking at you, or maybe a girl talked about you when you weren't around and someone overheard. There are different reasons why people see you as attractive. It may not be the relationship advice that they are wanting but the charm you possess. As for the relationship thing, all you have to do is engage and ask a woman out. Women want a man that isn't afraid of them. Make them feel like a million bucks and don't break their hearts. Remember, women deserve to be respected so don't lust after her and just leave her.