Hamed Hamedani
Who should first shake hand in american culture? Hi, In our culture, a student should not start shaking hand with a professor since it is somewhat rude . Instead, the student should let the professor decide. In other words, a student should only respond to a hand shake request from their professor and the students should not be the one who first reach out the hand. Could you please tell us a little about handshaking culture of the Americans​?
2016년 6월 8일 오후 9:10
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Only politicians care. Ordinary people in America don't care. Just extend your hand and offer a handshake. It's always polite.
2016년 6월 8일
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In America, usually the person that introduces themselves begins the handshake, but there is no general rule to this, and it is not rude for a student to begin shaking a professor's hand.
2016년 6월 8일
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It seems like in America if you want to shake someone's hand you just do put it out there and do it, it doesn't really matter on social position, you won't be looked down upon for sticking out your hand first for say a professor. I will say I always think it's a LITTLE weird when I'm introduced to a friend's friend and they shake my hand because I usually think of that as being really informal and not necessary but not in a "oh okay that guy is a total weirdo" sort of way just in a "oh okay sure". It's kind of the same reaction I get when a friends friend wants to give me a hug....a little weird but not impolite in the least. Really it's just a sign of being polite. I've never seen a poor reaction to getting or giving a handshake in any situation. I feel like it also depends on where you are, I feel like when I'm visiting the south/Midwest there's a lot more handshaking In more casual situations than up north/east.
2016년 6월 9일
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Nah... Men don't have to wait for women to initiate a hand shake. Just shove your hand at me and I'll happily reciprocate! Here in the US, you can offer a hand shake to anyone in an introductory meeting regardless the person's status. It's only weird if you do it to random strangers. Shake away!
2016년 6월 9일
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In American culture a handshake isn't always necessary you can just introduce yourself and smile as well. But a handshake is a sign of sincerity not disrespect regardless of your age or status (teacher-student / boss-employee)
2016년 6월 8일
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