The Brits I know...many of them...use it a lot! Example: Someone brings a gift and the host replies: 'You needn't have! ' It's almost like saying 'thank you', but it has the effect of complimenting the giver in this sentence.
Or someone does something for you - something kind - and you reply: 'You needn't have'. You are thanking the doer of good deeds but also very subtly complimenting them.
Other ways they use this: Janet is complaining about the price of a dress. Your reply: 'You needn't buy it.' In other words, you don't have to buy it if it causes you stress.
If you leave out the negative, it becomes 'you must' . Example: ' You need to leave on time or you will not catch the train. South Africans use it a lot. '