I think it also depends on the form of the word. Around here (California), we say route like root most often (though I've heard it and used it the other way), but when an -ing inflection is added to the end, it always ends up rhyming with out. For example, the "routing" in "routing number" rhymes with "outing." An operator might tell me they're routing (rhymes with outing) my call (if it's 1980, anyway :p).