For decades, I have seen many people who managed relationships by always accommodating the wants of others. They never looked after their own needs, resulting always in hurt or rejection. When I was a child, my parents and teachers would tell me: follow your own instincts and friend the people who really like you. They also said that nobody can know you better than you do. That was so true, and knowing it helped me to overcome many relationship difficulties as I grew up. There is a lyric that says that as you grow up, loneliness grows too. For adults, friendships are not all that matters. Benefits are not the main thing to consider in relationships. If you are tired of working your way into social circles, my advice is to distance yourself from social butterflies. Better to be alone than to force a smile for people who hate you . The enjoyment of solitude is an important skill for every adult. Beware the difference between "lonliness" and "solitude". I think you are saying "lonliness" when you are really thinking of solitude. Loneliness is always bad. Nobody ever wants to feel lonely. "Solitude", on the other hand merely means being by yourself and is not necessarily negative. I am confused by the meaning of "Because as for adults, the relationships between us and others don't always absolutely depend on friendships . most of the time, benefits are the first thing that people think about when they decide to build a relationship with ohters. "

In the past decades of my life, I have seen many people who kept a relationship with others just by adjusting their standards to meet others' tastes, they never cared about themselves. and the results always ended up with hurting or abandoning.When I was a child, my parents and teachers have told me that just did yourself and made friends with the people who really liked you . they also said that nobody could realize you better than yourself. It was completely correct and help me overcame many relationship diffculties as I grew up. There is a lyric says that when you grow up, you will feel lonely more. Because as for adults, the relationships between us and others don't always absolutely depend on friendships . most of the time, benefits are the first thing that people think about when they decide to build a relationship with ohters. If you are tried of getting into a social circle, my advice is that to keep far away these people ASAP. You'd rather stay alone than smile to the people who hate you . Enjoy loneliness is an important ability for every adult.

In the past decades of my life, I have seen many people who kept a relationship with others just by adjusting their standards to meet others', they never cared about themselves. and the results always ended up with hurting or abandoning. When I was a child, my parents and teachers told me that I should make friends with people who really liked me. They also said that nobody other than myself could help me reach my goals. All of it turned to be true and helped me overcome many difficulties in my relationships as I grew up. There is a lyric that says: “when you grow up, you will feel lonelier”, because relationships between adults don’t always solely depend on friendship. Most of the time, people chose to build a relationship based the benefits they’ll gain from it. If you are tired of socializing, my advice is that to should keep far away from these people ASAP. You'd rather stay alone than smile to the people who hate you. Being able to enjoy / bear loneliness is important for adults.