Phonetic respelling is usually done casually. It's invented as it is written. It isn't consistent or scientific. The consistent, scientific way is to use the international phonetic alphabet. I need to learn it!
If I turn "ev-ree" back into sound, I get two syllables. If I turn "ever-ee" back into sound, I get three syllables. The normal pronunciation is the two-syllable form. The second "e" is silent.
Rarely, you will hear someone say it is "ever-ree," but this is very unusual, it's not in the dictionaries I've checked, and it is done for purposes of emphasis.
If someone says "Do it every day, and I mean EVERY SINGLE DAY," the first "every" might be pronounced "ev'ry" and the second as "EV-uh-REE."