1. In your situation, when the person is with you, it would be, 你可以拿着这些咖嗎? Here, the situation will resolve to mean, "can you carry these coffee" instead of "holding them for me". 帶 = bring 帶回 = 拿回 = bring back.
2. is correct but not same in meaning. You are not coming back. That person is bringing it back.
3. 我可以邦你帶回...