Garyee Yue
Do I deserve their love? I've been being such a loser lately. I hadn't have do my best to prepare for the accounting, so I failed in that exam. And today, after having prepared for the BEC test for about 10 days, I felt so confident when I took the exam UNTIL, I realized that I used a pen to anwer the part where I was required to used a pencil. I'm so regretful for what I've done! I should've prepared better for the accounting exam. I should've the requirements before I do the BEC exam. I'm such a loser and yet, my families treat me really really good. My mother and brother are even going to buy me a new phone! I feel so guilty. I don't deserve their treatments, do I?
Dec 4, 2010 10:11 AM
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You know... Love - is an essence, that does not involve completion of some tasks, gaining some tremendous results, complying with someones' expectations, etc) If you are loved - it's just like that. The only thing you can do - is to love back, to care back. And don't try to deserve love)) So, the answer. You definitely deserve the love of those, who are your dearest people in this world ))
December 4, 2010
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Gratefully accept your parent's attitude that is aimed at giving you peace of mind ; Eventually keep your parents' good example in a safe place to have it handy when you will be a parent (if so you decide), this could be a new commitment, the way not to feel ungrateful, so that you have a free mind for the studies. Your error was completely not related to study. Sometimes we fail on very easy tasks, when we are deeply concentrated on the difficult task, I tell you from my own experience. p.s.: Humans are not much more than monkeys specialized in speaking, writing, complicating their own life and also building up generation after generation; I hope my fellow Readers don't get offense for my opinion.
December 4, 2010
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don't be sad, here have some chocolate chip ice cream!
December 4, 2010
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Every single person in this world deserve love whatever their circumstances are. You don't have to blame on yourself for what's happened to you, Garyee yue :) You might be under huge pressure from those exams you needed to take... Noone is perfect,and it's ok to make some mistakes in your life. From those experienses, you learn your life lesson. I advice you to count your blessing instead of focusing in the negative states. You should realise how lucky you are that you have such a wonderful people in your family. You've learnt your lesson from this experiense, therefore, you try not to make the same mistake again, then you recieve love from your family without hesitation. Because YOU DESERVE to recieve it! I know, when you feel down, it's not so easy to cheer yourself up,and be positive.... but time will pass, your life continues to go forward. You can not live in the past. "Thought of this present moment creats your future". If you would like to have a better future for yourself, I advice you to enjoy every moment of your life right now....and then, you can creat a better life ahead. And don't forget, your family wanted to buy a phone,and give you some love, BECASE, they know that YOU DESERVE it! ;-)
December 5, 2010
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You have done your best on preparing it this time and it's ok, it's enough for you. Just a little failing, nothing will change, so you deserve this, of course. Come on and make yourself happy~ Hope you can succeed next time!
December 4, 2010
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