I called a bitch a bitch. Do you think I was rude!?
You might be thinking, well not thinking, in fact, about to say, "How rude Trog, how could you even say that!?? That's really offensive!" And the rant may continue thereafter!:D You can but before that, may I have my say please?:))
Anyway, I wish I could know at that time(when I was in school) that the word "bitch" was not something I used to think. I wish I could have known the zombified meaning of this very word that is known by 99% people. But I was in that 1% of people!:D Blame my ignorance!
The incident dates back to the period when I was learning English in my school without having that much knowledge that I have now(about slang and swear words). So, there was an exercise in our English book where you need to name the Male, female, and infant animals. Eg.,Horse- Stallion(M):Mare(F):Foal(Infant), Cattle- Bull(M):Cow(F):Calf(infant), Deer(M):Doe(F):Fawn(infant) and last but not least Dog(M):Bitch(F):Puppy(infant) and so on...
So, as I knew some new words, I thought of using them. The parents of one of my friends bought a new dog home. I was curious and excited as never had a chance to play with a big furry dog. So, I rushed to his home at once!
His parents and he were there and the dog was sitting on the ground. I slammed my bike down and entered into his home(I was quite excited!:D). The dog looked at me but stayed calm. I asked my friend whether it's a male or a bitch!:D Silence....:| Now, his parents gazed at me like I said something I should not have!
They warned me not to use that word as it's offensive. I argued that I read it in my English book, so how could it be offensive... Then my friend's dad disclosed that zombified part that I was not aware of and advised me not to use it as this word didn't have a positive connotation!
When I was innocent, I could use that word, but now I am wise! I am confused whether being innocent is wise or being wise is wise!:D
Sometimes, I think "poor words" that are often considered unspeakable because we made them so!:(
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