"You get what you pay for?
We often hear the phrase, “ You get what you pay for.” This is true with services and products. While I was browsing for clothes online , I was reading some comments. Some buyers said that the clothes were too thin and the quality isn’t good. Then I checked the price, the buyer paid $2 which includes the shipping fee. The point is most people expect more than what they pay or give. This is an attitude that I changed over the years as a traveler and as a person. I can’t afford expensive hotels, so I book hostels or Airbnb’s, with the money that I paid which is usually $10-$14 a night, I am not expecting much. As long as I have a bed and the shower room is clean. I am happy with that because I know I didn’t pay much, so I am not expecting more than what I paid for. The same is true with learning or studying for important results. As an IELTS teacher, I met people who want to get instant results, and a lot of tips by paying a trial class of $5. I politely said to the student that fluency in any language has no shortcut. It is faster to improve fluency if you book a plane ticket going to England or the US and talk to locals on a daily basis.
There are rare occasions when we get more than what we pay for. You can buy delicious meal at street markets for $3 and it is sometimes better than what you eat at restaurants. There are touristy places you can travel at reasonable prices, Vietnam is one of those. I think I got more than what I paid for in Vietnam as a tourist. In education and learning, there are so many YouTube videos for free and PDF files for free that can help you tremendously. You get these information for free.
It is not an issue of how much someone can afford to pay or willing to pay. It is more of expectations. If you pay someone $10 an hour for a job that requires 3 hours. You must lower your expectations. It's like asking someone to work for free. It is the same concept I applied when I booked a hostel in Hong Kong for $14 a night. I did not expect a big space.
It is similar to a concept that is non monetary. I heard one of my friends say, " Do not expect love when you do not know how to love." Do not expect something that you cannot give." It is similarly to the concept of do not expect for something more than what you pay for.