At least in America, "lack of" is only used when it's a noun. For example "There's a real lack of enthusiasm among the students."
When it's used as a verb, it's mostly used alone (without "for"). For example "You lack the necessary qualifications for this job." "For" can be used when it's a verb, however it's very formal. You find it a lot in old books. For example "He lacks for confidence when speaking to women." (I suspect this might also be the case with "lack of" as a verb, but I've never heard it or read it. So It must be extremely formal.)