aap kaise hai - how are you
aap- to address someone present in front of us , or on telephone or chat etc .
kaise- asking about well being [how]
hai- represents that it is in present and not past or future.
aap - [you]
kaise- [how]
hai- [are]
aap is used for someone who is elder than us, or just to give more respect.
tum is a more informal way, casual like that