When we I was a child, I had plenty of friends who played and shared everything with me. As I grew up, most of them lefe homewown and went to other places for education or work. Then more and more new people went into my life, but less and less of them could get into my life and became my friends. As I became a parent, everything centres around the family. I spend most of my time between work and family. A busy daily schedule usually doesn't allow me to think about my friends. I just know that I need to deal with everything on my own. In fact, almost everyone at the age like me also has the similar life style. We slowly get used to be alone. So, we can cry, langh and feel upset, but we olny rely on ourselves during most of of life. Loneliness becames oue best friend. "He" looks a little bit diffcult to get along with, because he never comfort us, but encourage us to get out of our confort zones to overcome all the hardships. After getting along with "him" for many years, we eventually like "him".