I tend to take a genuine interest in other people. I'm naturally curious.
That doesn't mean that I become friends with everyone I meet.
Having acquaintances is important too.
Friendships are special as the relationship goes deeper.
I only let some people get close enough to call them a friend.
It all depends on my environment. I'm typically an ambivert and most of the time I'm socially selective. Most of my friends are older than me and I enjoy the company of older people. I usually have a tough time making friends with younger people or with people my age because I have a difficult time relating with them. I did not enjoy traditional schooling growing up because I was limited to my peers and I find their world so shallow.
I usually thrive in an environment that gives the opportunity to meet all kind of people (White, Asian, Hispanic, Black, Young, Old, Male and Female, etc.) -such as the internet or sports competitions. I usually become friendly in an international setting because I love variety.
I love my country but the Philippines is relatively a homogenous country in terms of race and religion so I don't really enjoy socialising here because there is no variety in terms of mindset.
Hi Alice
I think the older you get, the more difficult it becomes to find new friends. As a kid, it's easier to talk and to play with kids you don't know yet, but once you become older and you have your own life, there are less opportunities to meet new friends.
Does someone else agree with my opinion or do you think this is not the case?
Regards
Karen