It is not a usual expression, and it certainly isn't used by anyone I know. I can explain that this is more of a creative sentence structure, a funny expression that is meant to demonstrate mental dexterity.
If you really want to determine the sentence word by word, then here goes:1) Clam- an edible mollusc usually found in the sea. 2) Clam gargling- no idea, maybe the guy looks like a clam, or gurgles like one, or gurgles because he ate a clam. You'll have to consult another person on this. 3) Tea- a popular beverage. 4) Tosser- Either the action of tossing back your head while drinking, or a quintessentially British term meaning an unpleasant (possibly effeminate) man.
So, the entire sentence could just mean:" you unpleasant, effeminate tea drinking man who looks like a clam, or speaks like a person who just ate a clam."
Gibberish~