人生若只如初见，何事秋风悲画扇。 这里讲的是汉朝班婕妤的故事。她姓班，婕妤是妃子的一个称号。因为受到赵飞燕的迫害，她被打入了冷宫。后人写诗说她“妾身似秋扇”。秋扇指被抛弃的女子。 秋天到了，天气凉快了，扇子就没有用了，就会被抛弃掉，：D 世间的情爱，初见总是那么的美好，如果一直都像初见一样，秋风就不会悲画扇了。（女子也不会被抛弃了。） nice poem，：D

It doesn't mean that is one kind of 'first impressions' .人生如若初见 means that the lovers' ralationshiops and feelings are alway good at the beginning ,that will be wonderful if we can keep it forever in our lives.However,as time goes by,the guys will change and their ralationship won't be the same like before.So the poet said 人生如若初见 ,then people could own the wonderful relationships forever in our lives.

人生若只如初见的意思是什么? It means that you fell in love with a handsome boy who looks like Edward at the first sight and you're so happy, but then you find he is lazy and dirty and hot-tempered gradually so you feel very sad and disappointed, at the end you might wish you have never know this guy so thorouughly, you wish time could stop at the moment you just met him. This phrase is used to express such a feeling of regret. 用法是？when can we use this phrase? You may use it after you left that guy. 问题补充:Is the use of this phrase restricted only between lovers? Yes, it's usually been used in love affairs.

就是说，人与人之间如果都象初见时的美好，而不会日久产生审美疲劳，该有多好。这应该是一首诗的第一句，表达一种物是人非的感慨。 人生若只如初见，何事西风悲画扇？等闲变却故人心，却道故人心易变。 骊山语罢清宵半，夜雨霖铃终不怨。何如薄幸锦衣儿，比翼连枝当日愿。 -----清.纳兰性德《木兰词 拟古决绝词柬友》 纳兰此词以一失恋女子的口吻谴责负心的锦衣郎。 起句非常新奇，本来两情相悦，恨不能朝朝暮暮，然而如若知道迟早分离，倒不如保持“初见”时那种若即若离的美好。 然后描绘变心的人往往指责满怀痴情却无端被弃的一方首先变心，失恋女子的爱恨情殇可见一斑。 最后引用七夕长生殿的典故，谴责薄情郎虽然当日也曾订下海誓山盟，如今却背情弃义

The background of this poetry is this:A king get married with a beautiful woman and they loved each other.But after a few tims,the king loved the other wife(In ancientry china king has many wifes)Don't love the woman. So the woman feeled so hurt.one day ,she remembered she the king's love and wanted het life now,Say this phrase. If your boy friend was used to love you but now love with other.you can used this phrase or dressing down hem with your sisters.