#1 means you're asking for a comparison or a description. For example, I might respond with "It tastes like apple" or "It tastes sweet."
#3 is more like you're asking whether it's good or bad. "It tastes delicious" or "It tastes nasty."
#2 is kind of ambiguous. You could respond either of the previous ways. That's why it's not as common to ask "How was the taste?"
#4 means something completely different. If someone asked me "How do you taste it?", I would probably respond with "I put my tongue on it..." This is not what you're trying to ask.
I would use either #1 or #3, depending on what kind of response you want to ask for.