"Anyways" should never be used, although you may hear it. "Either ways" is incorrect and I have never before heard it.
"Anyway" is commonly used in conversation at the start of a sentence to dismiss a digression, preferably, in my mind, one's own digression. ("Anyway, I'm sorry, what were you saying?") Here in America it has been increasingly used, and overused, in a joking or rude manner to indicate that another person's comments are inappropriate or beside the point. ("Anyway, as I was saying before I was interrupted...") Aside from its being a conversational tic, you could use it in the following way: "Although the odds were against me, I decided to try it anyway."
"Either way" implies there are two options. For example: "Should we wash the dishes before we go or after we get back?" "Either way is okay with me."