Hi Vika,
Yes, all three forms are right. The phrasal verb forms just tell us how the pillows are plumped. If they're plumped out, then they've been plumped from a flat form to a large soft form. If they're plumped up, they are ready so that you can lay your head on them.
If it makes you feel any better, I encounter* the same confusion with perfective verbs in Russian. :)
* Yes, in cases like this, you need to use the verb "encounter", not "meet".